take and give

Something became very clear to me this morning. In order to be a good friend or in relationship at all, one must be vulnerable. One must not worry about the reaction of the other person when offering up words in confidence. There is no "worse case scenario" because if the relationship is to be and to grow, only receiving the precious humility of the giver is proper and therefore positive. In receiving, one gives a gift that is far greater that of any notes, chocolate bars, conversation, flowers, or hugs.
One gives freedom to speak and be heard.
One gives trust and care.
One releases the captive giver of angst about sharing a message once held so tightly.
One gives and also receives the gift of friendship.